Written by: Cindy Morrone

Who’s hungry?  Anyone up for a “Wunderbar Pretzel Sandwich?”

The Apostle Paul gives us excellent advice when it comes to speaking to others.  “Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.”  Ephesians 4:15

Whether we struggle with people-pleasing, flattery, being honest or feeling angry, this advice will help us; do as Jesus did, love on others.

Keep It Shut Challenge #3

Let’s put Karen’s, “Wunderbar Pretzel Sandwich” approach into practice when we “need to deliver difficult words in a delicate situation.” (page 153).

Review her approach on page 152.

Notice the steps:

  • Start with an encouraging word
  • Speak the hard truth statement
  • Finish off with another encouraging truth

Post it!  Let’s share how we’ve attempted to use this approach throughout our week.  We learn from the sharing.  When posting, let’s please remember Karen’s guidelines about controlling our digital tongue found all throughout her Chapter 6 Behind the Screen in pages 95-111.

  • Let us continually and constantly remember, we need never do this on our own. Karen reminds us, “And if we’re trying to die to self in our own strength, they will also be impossible.  In order to die to self in the daily, routine hassles and relational challenges we face, we must draw deeply from the available power of the Holy Spirit, surrendering our life and words to his will.” (page 167)